7 September, 2010

  • Admission: Control Freak

    1. I would rather drive than be driven.. That doesn't make me a control freak

    2. I would rather lead than trust someone to get me there ... That still doesn't make me a control freak

    3. When I am not in control I feel as if life will fly apart..... err umm humm moving on

    4. I feel I can control what happens around me with a little bit of planning and hard work. ..umm...

    5. If something unexpected happens I try and analyze how it happened so it won't happen again.. ugh...

     

    Okay, so I AM a control freak! Well, I suppose anyone who has had trauma in their lifetime has gone under the assumption to prevent it in the future. And, maybe there are some without trauma who do the same thing. I can only speak for me. I am a control freak, I have been a control freak for a very long time. I am learning to trust and give up that control, but GEEZ it's hard to do it. To let go and let someone else have control, over me.. wow... it's just something that is so hard for me. I am doing it though :)

Comments (2)

  • Hey, it's okay to be a little controlling...besides, analyzing how you can prevent incidents from occuring again is a good thing. It's learning. Nothing makes me more mad than someone who keeps doing the same thing over and over because they never learned a lesson.
    I am a teeny weeny bit of a control freak too . I went through some crazy bs and I've had to learn to let go. I used to drive myself crazy with over-analyzing e-v-e-r-y-thing! It's about focusing mentally on something positive when your brain starts spinning into that negative, controlling thought cycle.

    You're more in control of yourself when you're not trying to grasp for control...

  • @JoyElizabeth82@xanga - Very true  I have taken to the the Extreme. LOL I need to let go a little more :)

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